When I first stumbled into Wicca as a young gay man, it felt like stumbling into a secret garden. The rituals, the reverence for nature, the sacredness of the body—it was unlike anything I'd ever been taught growing up in the pews of a Catholic church. But the honeymoon didn't last. I quickly realized most Wiccan spaces still clung to a rigid male-female polarity that left little room for men who loved men.

That's why I created the Wolf Pack Tradition.

This isn't your standard Wicca 101—though we honor its roots. The Wolf Pack Tradition is a queer-masculine spiritual path grounded in Wiccan practice, Faery tradition spirit-work, and the raw, untamed magic of living authentically as gay men. It's not about fitting into someone else's template. It's about running wild in our own skin.

The Three Wolves: A Cosmology for the Queer Soul

At the heart of this tradition live three sacred archetypes:

  • Grey Wolf: The guardian of lineage, boundaries, and chosen family. Think of your elders, your queer ancestors, the protectors who held you up when the world tried to tear you down.

  • Arctic Wolf: The shapeshifter, the visionary. He walks between worlds, sees through illusion, and teaches you to transform survival skills into sacred gifts.

  • Red Wolf: The embodiment of sensuality, passion, and pleasure. This wolf reminds you that your body and desire are not obstacles on the spiritual path—they are the path.

These wolves don't just live in mythology. They live in you—in how you love, how you fight, how you survive, and how you show up for others.

Beyond Toxic Masculinity

Let's be honest—many of us have a complicated relationship with masculinity. The Wolf Pack doesn't tell you what kind of man to be. Instead, it offers a sacred container where you can redefine masculine energy on your terms. Protective without being possessive. Passionate without being predatory. Tender without apology.

Magic for Our Real Lives

We cast circles, we call quarters, we celebrate sabbats—but we do it in a way that centers our lived experience. Our rituals are grounded in queer resilience. Our ethics are rooted in consent, community, and sustainability. Our sex magic isn't some forbidden thrill—it's a sacred act of self-empowerment.

We honor gods like Antinous, Pan, Ganymede, and Dionysus—but we also work with the Fae, the Dark Mother, and divine energies beyond binary gender. In the Wolf Pack, your magical tools aren't bought—they're embodied. Your athame might be your fingertip, your wand the breath of your intention.

This Tradition Is for You If...

  • You've ever sat in a circle and felt invisible.

  • You've ever rewritten a ritual in your head to make it reflect your truth.

  • You've ever wanted a spiritual path that didn't just tolerate your queerness but celebrated it as sacred.

The Wolf Pack Tradition doesn't demand perfection. It invites presence. It doesn't offer dogma—it offers a mirror, a circle, and a howl.

So if you're ready to meet your inner wolves and walk a path where queer identity is not a detour but a direct route to divine connection—welcome home.

The circle is cast. The wolves are howling. There's a place for you here.